Meet
Alyy Patel
Power Dyke
Sonali (Alyy) Patel is a trailblazing change-maker & self-proclaimed Power Dyke™, who engages in a multitude of activities and initiatives. Alyy is an innovative young leader fuelled by her passion for fostering inclusive spaces and empowering others to live their best life.
Alyy is best known for making a revolutionary impact in her community. Following her heart's desire for LGBTQ+ advocacy, Alyy began organizing community events and delivering motivational speeches at schools in the Halton Region in 2015. This eventually transformed into her current global LGBTQ+ activism work, trailblazing research about the discrimination against queer South Asian women, and Diversity & Inclusion Consulting.
From an early age, Alyy has been discouraged from pursuing advocacy work. She was consistently told that it is impossible to change the world. Disagreeing with this sentiment, Alyy “rebelled” by chasing her vision to transform the world into a more inclusive space. She brought her visions to life by leaning into her interests in project management, graphic design, and learning new skills. At present, Alyy’s work has achieved the “impossible.” Queer South Asian women are now increasingly visible in LGBTQ+ spaces and discourses.
Despite a lack of family acceptance for her sexuality, Alyy openly works to mobilize and visibilize the issues and experiences of queer South Asian women in Western LGBTQ+ communities. Alyy believes it is crucial to address these issues in order to enhance the collective well-being of Queer South Asian diaspora.
Alyy’s journey has not been easy. Throughout her lifetime, Alyy has experienced significant adversities and violence that sought to prevent her from pursuing this work. However, Alyy’s genuine love for people and passion for improving communities carried her through her darkest times. Alyy’s journey with poor mental health has inspired her to live by the philosophy of “lead with love.” This philosophy is integrated into the foundation of everything she does.
Education
University of Toronto, St. George Campus
Honours Bachelor of Arts (distinction)
Double Major in Sociology & Sexual Diversity Studies with a Minor in Gender Studies
University of Ottawa
Master of Arts
in Sociology
University of British Columbia
Doctor of Philosophy
in Sociology
Awards & Honours
LEADERSHIP:
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2023: Top Seven South Asians in Canada (Systemic Changemaker), Council for Agencies Serving South Asians (CASSA)
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2021: January Marie Lapuz LGBTQ+ Youth Leadership Award: 2nd Runner Up, SHER Vancouver
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2021: Top Ten Queer South Asian Advocates, SHER Vancouver
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2020: Delegate (Oakville Riding), Daughters of the Vote
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2020: Twenty Noteworthy Queers, SHER Vancouver
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2020: January Marie Lapuz LGBTQ+ Youth Leadership Award: Honorable Mention, SHER Vancouver
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2018: Gordon Cressy UofT Student Leadership Award, University of Toronto
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2018: Woodsworth Cup: Outstanding Student Leadership Contributions, University of Toronto
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2018: Green Ribbon Award: Outstanding Achievement in Campus Sustainability, University of Toronto
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2016: J.S. Woodsworth Service Award, University of Toronto
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2014: June Callwood Harmony Scholarship for Promoting Diversity Across Canada, Harmony Movement Canada
ACADEMIC:
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2024: Best Student Paper Award, Canadian Sociology Association
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2022-2024: President’s Academic Excellence Initiative PhD Award, University of British Columbia
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2021: Best Graduate Thesis: Nomination, University of Ottawa
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2020: SSHRC Doctoral Fellowship, Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council (SSHRC)
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2019: Inclusive Research Scholarship, University of Ottawa, Graduate Students’ Association
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2018—2019: Entrance Scholarship, University of Ottawa
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2016—2018: Brookfield Peter F. Bronfman Scholarship, University of Toronto
Significant Milestones
2018 Onward
April 2018
June 2018
March 2019
August 2019
June 2020
March 2021
June 2021
November 2021
June 2022
September 2022
September 2022
May 2023
Pioneered Canadian research on queer South Asian women's issues in Canada by pursuing an undergraduate research study
Attained an honours Bachelor of Arts with distinction from the University of Toronto: St. George Campus (double major in Sociology & Sexual Diversity Studies with a minor in Gender Studies)
First Peer-Reviewed Publication in the Journal of Lesbian Studies (ranked 7th most cited article of 2019)
Solely founded the Queer South Asian Women's Network (Canadian non-profit organization)
Made Canadian LGBTQ+ history as the first South Asian speaker at Pride Toronto's Dyke March
Elected to represent Oakville Riding in Daughters of the Vote's Virtual Parliament
Co-founded the Queer Gujarati Parivaar (global online collective)
Attained a Master of Arts in Sociology from the University of Ottawa
Speaker at the Ontario Government's Pride Flag Raising Ceremony
Began PhD at the University of British Columbia
Made the Top 7 South Asians in Canada list for 2023 (awarded by CASSA)
June 2023
Featured on the Yonge-Dundas Billboard for Prime Video's Pride Campaign
Queer South Asian
Being
Navigating Identity
Balancing queer and South Asian identities in the diaspora is a complex and stressful experience. There is no ‘right way’ to do so and Alyy is still figuring it out for herself—one day at a time. Follow Alyy’s journey of navigating being queer and South Asian on social media!
Alyy also writes about her process of reconciling her queer identity in light of cultural constraints in her book Don't Tell My Parents: Queer Diasporic Truths.
Below are some community & educational resources developed by Alyy Patel.
Community Organizations
Alyy Patel is an avid community organizer that has launched two LGBTQ+ South Asian organizations:
The Queer South Asian Women's Network is a Canadian non-profit organization founded by Alyy Patel in 2019.
The first of its kind, QSAW Network seeks to enhance visibility and a sense of belongingness amongst gender-marginalized LGBTQ+ South Asian diaspora.
The Queer Gujarati Parivaar is a grassroots community collective that was co-founded by Alyy Patel and Flow in 2021.
The Queer Gujarati Parivaar works to connect and celebrate the LGBTQQIA+ Gujarati diaspora.