alyy patel

Trailblazing LGBTQ+ Activist & Scholar


Sonali (Alyy) Patel is a trailblazing LGBTQ+ activist, author, scholar, and influencer, who has made Canadian history on several accounts. Alyy is best known for making monumental strides for Queer South Asian women in North America. By age 22, Alyy pioneered Canadian research on Queer South Asian Women’s issues in the diaspora. As well, Alyy solely founded the Queer South Asian Women’s Network—a thriving national non-profit organization and the first of its kind to bring this severely invisibilized community together. In 2020, Alyy made Canadian LGBTQ+ history as the first South Asian speaker at Pride Toronto’s Dyke March. In 2022, Alyy was the first queer South Asian speaker at the Ontario Government's Pride Flag Raising Ceremony.

Alyy passionately works to bridge community gaps through knowledge construction and mobilization. She has spent the past decade spearheading countless queer initiatives across Canada, such as Halton Region's first LGBTQ+ Pride Festival (2015) and the Queer Gujarati Parivaar (2021). Alyy dedicatedly raises awareness about the issues and experiences of Queer South Asian diaspora through her writing, public speaking, research, and community activism. Recently, Alyy published their first book Don't Tell My Parents: Queer Diasporic Truths

Alyy's work and unapologetic existence aim to challenge enforced assimilation while empowering others to embrace their authentic selves.

Alyy is a Toronto-born Gay, Gender Fluid, Indo-African Gujarati on a mission to foster inclusivity by influencing worldviews, bridging community gaps, and inspiring others to lead with love. Alyy is currently pursuing her PhD in Sociology at the University of British Columbia. She has previously earned her Master of Arts from the University of Ottawa and honours Bachelor of Arts in Sociology & Sexual Diversity Studies from the University of Toronto.

Alyy is also an independent diversity & inclusion consultant and keynote speaker.

Don't Tell My Parents: Queer Diasporic Truths

How do you choose between queer love and family when both are equally painful experiences? In this unflinchingly honest collection of poetry, Alyy shares her process of reconciling her queer identity in light of cultural constraints and abusive relationships.

Alyy Patel's first published book, Don't Tell My Parents: Queer Diasporic Truths, is a must-read for all. It is available for purchase at the following retailers:

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What's New with Alyy?


June 2022

Alyy Patel is invited to speak about Queer South Asian realities at the Ontario Government's Pride Flag Raising Ceremony

Parliament of Ontario, Queens Park

Noteworthy Achievements


30+ Speeches Delivered


Successfully Mobilized 
Queer South Asian Women


World-Renowned LGBTQ+ Activist

She’s an overall badass paving the way for queer South Asians everywhere.

— Samantha Mann in BUST Magazine

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